Full Circle: From Their Classroom to My Own

As I stand on the edge of my first year of teaching, I’ve been caught between excitement and nerves, wondering how I will show up for my students. In those quiet moments of dreaming about the teacher I hope to become, my thoughts drift back to the people who shaped me most: my own teachers. Some challenged me in ways I didn’t appreciate until years later, others believed in me when I couldn’t believe in myself, and many created spaces where I felt safe to grow. Looking back, I realize the kind of teacher I want to be is deeply rooted in the lessons they gave me—both inside and outside of the classroom.

As I take this step forward, I want to honor those teachers and share some of the lessons they taught me that continue to shape the kind of educator I hope to be.

Mrs. Daily (4th Grade)

If I could give my own “Teacher of the Year” it would hands down go to Mrs. Daily. I remember so much from 4th grade. She brought every lesson to life and was very hands on in her approach. From making a plantation out of milk cartons, to the prairie day with square dancing and candle and corn husk doll making, to turning our classroom into a full on jungle for a classroom production of a story we were reading (picture below of me as an orange bird) . Even now about 30 years later, I still remember the four chambers of the heart because we had to walk through a version that was taped to the floor like we were on an episode of the Magic School Bus. Mrs. Daily taught me so much about how fun learning can be when you make it engaging and curate an experience. She is one of the teachers that inspired me to go into teaching, and why I was an elementary school major at first. (That lasted for a semester, but still…) She is forever one of my favorite teachers, and is someone I look up to when I am trying to come up with ways to engage my classroom.

Mrs. Absher (5th grade)

Mrs. Absher taught me the power of relationships. She was one of the those teachers who kind of just reached into your soul and was able to pull out your super power because she took the time to know you. She was such a kind and caring teacher, and she really made you feel seen. I was very shy in elementary school, and she had a way because of our connection to make me want to come out of my shell. She also kept that relationship going and was a constant cheerleader for me well into college. I remember tutoring in her classroom all during high school because of that relationship she focused so heavily on building. I also learned how to make GORP in 5th grade, which is an important skill. IYKYK.

Mrs. Pickens (7th grade)

She was one of my Social Studies teachers in middle school, but what stands out most to me are the memories of being in the Recycling Club with her. Mrs. Pickens had this way of seeing potential in me that I didn’t yet see in myself. With her encouragement, I found the courage to take on leadership roles and the confidence to step into opportunities I might have otherwise avoided. She didn’t just teach content, she taught me how to believe in myself, how to step outside my comfort zone, and how everyone can create community. Her kindness and steady positivity made such a difference during those pivotal middle school years. Looking back, she is one of the teachers who not only shaped who I became as a student, but also inspired me to want to work with this age group myself, to be that same kind of guiding light for others.

Mrs Reynolds (HS Sociology)

What I remember most about Mrs. Reynolds is how she challenged us to think outside of the box. We didn’t just read text books; most of our class was spent in discussion. She taught me so much about discourse and respectfully seeing different sides. She was able to help us grow in our perspectives and work through really challenging ideas as we were about to embark on the “real world.” I remember how she gave us space to use our voice, but at the same time challenge us to support our thought process outside of group think which can be so prevalent in the teenage years. She was also very invested in our journeys and made us see all the possibilities after high school through our discussions.

My Dad/Mr. Glinn (HS Anatomy and Marine Biology)

I was in my dad’s classes two years in a row. My dad was a great teacher, and I can sing all the accolades about the strategies that he used. However, what I learned most from being in his class is hard work is yours to own. I got teased a lot in his class that he was giving me good grades, but if anyone actually paid attention, I am fairly certain he made me work harder than anyone else in the class. He certainly was not going to hand me that grade, I had to EARN it. Hard work meant a lot there, and I knew that I had to put in the time and effort to get a good result. Granted hard work was always emphasized growing up, but it stood out even more as I sat in his classroom those two years. I also learned from him that it is ok for teachers to infuse their own personality in class. My dad is obsessed with marine life which is hard when you are land-locked in Missouri, and so he built and got approval from the district to have a marine biology course because he was passionate about it. Also he was always being a goof in class, which was normal to see as a dad, but a whole other level of comfort when your daughter is in your class. He was so comfortable in his own shoes, and I believe his goofiness allowed him to connect more with his students (regardless of how embarrassed I may have been.) He embraced it all, and it was fun to see him shine in who he was. Needless to say, that marine biology course was one of my favorites in high school.

Mrs. Blay (Theatre)

I never had Mrs. Blay in a classroom, but I had the privilege of learning from her through the school theatre programs she led. One of the most powerful lessons she taught me came through what was, at the time, one of my most embarrassing moments as a perfectionist. My senior year, I overcommitted myself in a big way, trying to do it all and not being honest about the fact that I was falling short as the sound manager for a show. When I was removed from that role, I felt crushed with shame—not only because I had failed, but because I had let others down. Yet it was in that moment that Mrs. Blay stepped in and refused to let me ignore the reality. She didn’t let me slide, and though it was a hard truth to face, she gave me one of the most important lessons I’ve carried with me since: that accountability and failure are not the end, but the beginning of growth. From her, I learned that saying “no” is not weakness, but wisdom, and that being honest with yourself and others is the only way to lead with integrity. What felt like failure in the moment became a turning point in how I view responsibility, self-awareness, and leadership—lessons I still carry with me today.

Mr. Watring (HS Band)

High school band was more than just a class or an activity, it was a safe haven for me, the place where I felt the most free to be myself. So much of that came from the kind of program Mr. Watring built. He challenged us to strive for excellence, but never at the expense of individuality. He created space for each of us to grow into who we were meant to be. For me, he was instrumental in building my confidence. He recognized strengths I didn’t even know I had and trusted me with leadership roles that stretched and shaped me. From performing in the top concert band all four years to guiding me through the college process, and even connecting me to the professor who would later mentor me in college, his influence reached far beyond the band room. From him, I learned that great teaching is not just about skill, but about truly seeing your students and helping them see the best in themselves. His support, encouragement, and belief in me left a mark I carry with me to this day, and I am forever grateful for the way he used music to teach me lessons about leadership, perseverance, and self-belief.

Dr. Bax (College Political Science)

I had the privilege of taking several classes with Dr. Bax in college, and to be honest, I sought out every course she offered as electives because I respected her that much. What set her apart was her gift for making political science feel alive and relevant. She had a way of taking even the most abstract or distant concept and weaving it into our everyday lives, showing us that what we were learning wasn’t just content—it was connected to who we were and the world around us. From her, I learned the importance of applicability: that when students see the “why” and the “how” behind a lesson, their investment deepens. She showed me that the way you frame a lesson can make all the difference, turning information into meaning and sparking genuine engagement. That approach has stuck with me, and it’s a lesson I hope to carry into my own teaching.

Dr. Tony Cawthon (Grad school professor)

Anyone who has been part of the Clemson program, or even just crossed paths with it, knows the kind of heart Tony pours into everything he does. His love for the program, for the profession, and above all for his students is undeniable. Being in his class, you couldn’t help but feel his passion radiating through every lesson, every conversation, every encouragement. He didn’t just invest in our education, he invested in us as people. That kind of care left a mark, not only strengthening the program but shaping each of us in lasting ways. Decades later, he is still there—cheering us on in the comments, sharing our successes, and celebrating every milestone as if it were his own. Tony isn’t just a teacher; he is the very picture of what it means to teach with heart, and his legacy is written in the lives of his students. He taught me most about legacy and true investment.

Every teacher I’ve had throughout my life has left a mark on me in some way, through their patience, encouragement, creativity, and belief in me. Each of them added a piece to the puzzle that inspired me to become a teacher myself. I carry their lessons with me into my own classroom, hoping to honor the impact they had by teaching with the same care, passion, and dedication. My greatest hope is that my students will feel seen, supported, and inspired in the way my teachers made me feel, and that I can help spark a love of learning that stays with them long after they leave my class.

Boomerang

“Whatever you give to the person standing next to you, it eventually comes back to you.”

This week I will start my last closing as a housing professional, for the immediate future anyway. It is hard to believe in two weeks I will be three states away and about to embark on a whole new life:  one with my husband and one without Residence Life.

Since I have been living in the residence halls since I graduated high school ten years ago (minus my one lone year off campus while student teaching, but still within spitting distance of the residence halls lol), it is hard to imagine not living in a college town and on campus. I have spent a lot of time recently reflecting on the past 9 years and how much residence life has impacted me. I found out who I was in the halls. I found some of my closest friends. I found that my passion is teaching but not how I had imagined it my whole life. Residence Life has given me so much from being a resident to student staff member to professional. Now I have to let it go and cut the cord per say. This girl is moving off campus for reals this time.

Not really knowing how to pay homage to my residence life history or in the right mindset to say goodbye, I started scouring my photos. There lies so many memories. So many late nights, events, conversations, meals, tears, laughter-such richness in these photos. And of course as I have spent the evening looking at these again, I was sent back to those times and laughed and cried all over again.

Here are just some of the highlights and in no particular order:

1. There are too many things that happened my freshmen year to even begin describing it here. I could have a whole tribute to 3rd floor Hosey-lounge parties, dress-up, hallway convos, one and only all-nighter, crushes, the drama, etc. That community will always hold a special place in my heart. I can only smile.

2. Playing CA sardines in Natt/Brad.

3. Jello Fights

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4. Warrensburg Police escorting the Yeater CAs to the Yeater Porch so we could see what it looked like.

5. The challenge of an all female floor and “I love my CO!”

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6. Conferences across the nation and the opportunity to travel (Missouri, Oklahoma, Kansas, Missouri, Wisconsin, Illinois, South Carolina, North Carolina, Massachusetts, Virginia, Georgia, Florida, Washington, Indiana, Kentucky, Tennessee, and Pennsylvania were all states I was able to see more of because of housing opportunities.)

7. University of Central Florida intern trio and shenanigans

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8. Upper Friley Staff jumping into Ada Hayden during training. Take it to the Top!

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9. SHOEBOX!

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10. Geer Flood. Yep this is a happy memory.

11. Dispelling the myths of the haunted 3rd floor Yeater.

12. Getting lost in my own building. Oh Friley you are too much like Hogwarts with your hidden floors and stairwells to no where.

13. Camping outside of RHD Jamie’s office during closing.

14. Themed rounds with my other half. Stbizzle is on call!

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15. 4th Natt ladies faking a roommate conflict so they could TP my room.

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16. Friley Snowball (2011, 2012, 2013)

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17. Lipsyncs.

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18. Most spirited staff during RALI and spending time each day to make our costumes and plan our entrances-hilarious

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19. Friley Penny Wars being most of the student contribution to United Way

20. My last Upper Friley staff meeting.

20. Being able to witness students coming alive and be passionate about a cause. Seeing what students are capable of has been an honor.

21. Watching communities come together in times of triumph and sorrow

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22. I have learned so many skills and things about myself within crisis management, event planning, counseling skills, professionalism, how to be human, and more. And yet, I still have not been able to master how many pizzas a group of college students needs.

These 22 statements barely begin to describe all that has happened over the years, but you have to start somewhere. Even as I read this over, I can think of other things or want to add other pictures, but as my husband says I need to learn to keep my stories short. Ugh, this is why saying goodbye is hard. There is just so much to say!

Residence life is a special place. It has been a boomerang for me. There were many days that I thought I was giving all that I was and sacrificed all that I had. But as I sit here about to embark on my final days as a Hall Director, I realize how much it has done for me since that first day in 355 Hosey in 2003. Residence life has given me more than I could have ever imagined, hoped for, or expected. It provided me a place to be what I needed to be in the time I needed to be it. It challenged me to grow up and become a much stronger individual. It has been my home.

I am sure I will still be uncovering lessons from my time in the halls for years to come. And there are so many people and events that will make me smile and make me a reslifer at heart.

All I can say now is thank  you to all of those who have come and gone over the past decade. Each of you have influenced who I am today. From those of you who made hard boiled eggs with me in my crock pot to those who drank countless cups of coffee with me or those who ran down the hill at Death Valley. I cannot begin to say thank you enough for all the love, support, and time that has been spent to make this all happen. To make “me” happen.

Filled with gratitude and humbled as I say goodbye to this weird but joyous life in the residence halls.

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Now what am I going to do with all my free time?

Hmm maybe more things like social painting!

If you have not heard of social painting, you should really look into it. It is where an art professional hosts an event for people to come and follow along on a painting. Ours was hosted in a restaurant, so we could order food and drinks while we painted. There was a specific painting design, and the teacher guides you through the basic idea and is there for support and guidance through the painting process.

This is one of the best outings I have had in a long time. And it was pretty reasonable too! We bought ours on Groupon, but I think even regular price is still fairly cheap. Your “ticket” is for the event, and all art supplies are included. All social painting events may vary on the details so make sure you read the fine lines before you participate to know what you are getting into.

It was really fun though, and it has definitely got me wanting to paint like crazy!

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It was really cool seeing how each of us interpreted the same design so drastically differently. I love art.

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Apparently, I picked one of the hardest designs to do. Whoops. But I think we all did a great job! And it was fun to do it with a group of friends!

What is your favorite college memory from living on-campus?