I still find it funny that on our first date, Tom explicitly told me he did not want to have kids.
Here we are 8 years later celebrating his first Father’s Day.
These pictures were part of Tom’s Father’s Day gift. We are going to blow them up and hang them up in his new workshop.
I asked the new dad to reflect a little.
What was one thing you weren’t expecting as a parent? Just how much I could love a kid. I just had no idea.
How has being a dad changed you? I worry a lot. So much of the things I used to worry about for myself, I worry for him now.
What has scared you the most about parenthood? Now it’s my job to turn my kid into a decent human being. It’s one thing to do that for yourself, but to get someone else to the point where they are a decent human being is a huge task. So much of the current generation are mean and self-entitled, and I want George to grow up knowing that his failures and successes are his alone.
What have you loved/enjoyed the most about being a dad? When I get to Brenda’s (our baby sitter) and he knows who I am, and then smiles because I am there. Also using George as an excuse not to do social things because I am a homebody.
What is one thing you did as a child that you want to do with our kids? Just the outdoors in general.
What do you want to teach George? Lots of things: How to be self-reliant, like no matter what happens he can handle it and thrive in that situation. Success in life is 100% based on the work you are willing to put in. I want to teach him to be the kind of adult that puts his morals and integrity before anything else.
Anything you are looking forward to in your 2nd year as a dad? Giving George the house and the room to explore that he deserves. I am excited to be able to finally communicate and find out what’s going on in that little mind.
What is your advice to new dad’s? Don’t listen to the naysayers. Your life isn’t over once you become a dad. Do it your way. No matter how you raise your kid or what decision you make, someone out there will say you are a bad parent. Parent the way that you think is the best for your kid.
Tom is such a sweet dad. He is quirky and real with George. I love watching the two of them together, and their relationship is already a special one. I can see that it is hard for Tom to be away from George on his long shifts. He tries to make the most of the time they have together, even if that means that he just is holding George’s hand in the middle of the night while George is asleep. George just loves his daddy, and I can tell he already sees him as his own hero.
It has been a wild ride so far since we became parents.
I cannot wait to see their relationship blossom even more. Can you imagine Talks with Tom AND George? I can’t wait.
Love it! Happy Father’s Day, Tom.
Aww! So fun to read his answers! 🙂
He was surprisingly serious!
The picture of George, where he is holding the level, is priceless! His expression is amazing!
Haha yea that was one of my favorites from the shoot.
I love using Jimmie as an excuse to not go somewhere.Seriously. But sometimes it stinks that we can’t go out at night bc he goes to bed so early. I walked the dog at 9 the other night, and I thought about how I hadn’t been out of the house past 7 in MONTHS. Love the DAD pictures.
Haha I have to walk the dogs after 8 most nights too. It’s crazy how fast you don’t want to leave the house all in the name of bedtimes.
It doesn’t hurt that you had one of the cutest babies ever. Cough have more cough.
Haha we sure do have a cute one. Someday we hope to have another.